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Children are very good at hiding the signs of bullying, they feel ashamed at admitting to being a victim and as bullying can often build up slowly, sometimes children are not fully aware of the situations they've found themselves in. According to the NSPCC, 38% of young people have been affected by cyberbullying. Luckily there are lots signs to look out for along with a number of practical ways to prevent bullying and support your child.
The first step is to talk to your child, which can be difficult as they will probably not want to open up to you. Try asking them in general terms about the happiest and saddest experiences they've had online and move the conversation on from there. Tracking their online activity is obviously the most efficient way to assess if anything unpleasant has taken place. You can use our computer internet monitoring tools to do this easily and effectively, they cover all aspects of internet access. If you don't have these tools in place, then check the privacy settings and the internet history. We highly recommend discussing with your child that you are monitoring their computer, so they understand that their computer activity isn't strictly private. If they understand that you are regularly looking over their shoulder they will immediately feel more safe and perhaps be more cautious. The same applies to your child's mobile phone. If they have a smartphone, they will be able to access a wealth of social networks and interactive applications. Our spy phone software for different models allows the discreet monitoring of the phone's usage remotely. Again, we would recommend informing your child that the phone is being regularly checked. It is generally social networking sites where bullying takes place, so check Twitter, Facebook and the other sites your child logs into. All sites have codes of conduct to prevent bullying and trolling, but not all of them are very active in discouraging it taking place. In the first instance, block and report any users who exhibit aggressive and bullying behaviour. It is also very important to educate your child about online bullying. We all know that adults don't always "play nicely" when they're online, hiding behind usernames and avatars. They act tough, but we know that this is often just an act. Share some of your funny stories about the silly people who bluster and boast online. While bullying and threats can make us very unhappy and stressed when we're on the receiving end of them, in very few cases is there a serious danger behind them. Support your child by providing sympathy, but keep calm and reassure them turning this into a huge drama will not help. If you have any concerns and require any further advice on this issue, contact the NSPCC helpline on 0808 800 5000.